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Love you both 💖

he is not all that either, have you noticed? In war times you cannot so too picky, get it?

Nice to see the return of your car vlogs. No reason to defend yourself to your viewers about losing your job. Been watching you since day1. You're stronger than that, so not sure why this new display of defense... for your viewers? Not your normal response. I guess views count when you are needing income. "WHEN ONE DOOR CLOSES, ANOTHER ONE OPENS, but we often look so long and so regretfully upon the closed door that we do not see the ones which open for us." -Alexander Graham Bell

Harriet ❤

Love the dress on You

I’m so sorry, I literally lost my 2 year old boy 2 weeks ago, it’s devastating keep her in your heart ♥️

proud of you!

Haven’t watched you in a while - kinda took a social media break I was addicted to scrolling lol Buttttt I really wanna try Bloom Chic and I’m so concerned about sizing. I’m like “I know Kandy will definitely have some Bloom Chic Hauls!” And here I am! lol Thanks girl! Hope the new jobs going well!

Get back to me

You have kids

You have such a good head on your shoulders! I wish I could be more like you, I put up with crap I shouldn’t at work and we should all at least try to find something that makes us a big happier. Good luck on the new search!

I think it's great that you tried a new job environment and finding out what really fits you better. I'm sure you will find something that is an amazing new adventure. And I love the slot machines!

Its smart to not watch the news.

Those kids are going to have a gambling problem😮😅 LOL

Lose some wight. You've been morbidly obese for years. It will kill you soon if you don't change your lifestyle.

...i get it, the part about depression meds. Mine make me too numb, but without them I am a blubbering mess. I have long grief and ptsd from the day my husband died suddenly, 5 years ago. It feels like yesterday still, to me. Tiffs are normal. Its good to get everything up and out, or else there will be resentment. Never let yourself "harbour resentment".❤❤

A job where you are moving around, not stuck in a cubicle, is what fits your ticket!🥰

I had a job like that in my early 30s. I am 50 now. I decided then life is toooo short to be unhappy. You done right.

You look very beautiful I like how you are

U did better than me b/c I wouldn't have said anything. I just would have gone on lunch break and never came back.

Kandy you have the patience of a saint . When a package comes to my house I can't even wait 5 seconds to open it lmao .

Going to a job should make you happy, not feel abandoned.

I think you quit that job with grace and dignity. Good for you for knowing that it wasn't going to be good for you and not letting it continue. Be blessed.

Your cat died awwww..

Ok now you have to do a video showing us the pictures where Cody wouldn’t date ya. Lol

Hugs xxxx

You were in the same job for a long time, you were happy at the tyre store too. Findings a good fit in a job is important and like dating sometimes. Not everything or everyone is for us. Recognising this so early is so important. 😊

Leaving a job that’s not for you, is perfectly okay! People forget that employment is a two way street. Not only do I need to be a good fit for your company, but your company also needs to be a good fit for me!

Maybe you and cody will own a home one day...❤ time flies

I miss your GRWM Videos 😊

No written instructions for a new hire!? Damn they set you up to fail. This was 100% on them Kandy, not you. I work in HR and you quitting so soon after being hired is a reflection of poor on boarding and vetting in the interview. Im curious what was discussed in the interview in regards to training. Also even if you have previous experience its not unreasonable to expect to be shown how they want you to do things.

Wait, what happened to your room mate?

I just dont like his comment. Not saying anything against Cody as im sure he didnt intentionally mean anything by it. But if my current bf looked at my pic from 4 years ago and said that, id be devastated. Ive been struggling bad with my image since ive lost 100 pounds since last year and knowing he wouldn't of loved me at then would definitely hurt. Also girl YOLO if a job doesnt feel like a fit, there is plenty to replace it. Im the type to say if ya aint happy? Fuck that jobbb lolol

Another great birth control video! 😂😂😂 thank you

Glad to hear you are a growing enough to recognize what is and is not a good working environment and know when to leave a job that does not fit. There is no need to stick with a job that kills your soul.

At least you were able to recognize early on that this was a job not for you.

I hate work environments like that where it is like figure it out and there is no plan or written processes to solve problems.

I also have to have music playing sometimes. Especially if it is too quiet.

I had no idea there was a Lego Land in Texas?

That job sounds like Hell- don't feel bad about it. You did the right thing bailing when you did. Bravo - when its not right its not right. You shouldn't be hating to go to work at a job you just started. I've been there- you'll find something so much better now.

Dont feel bad. No one is disappointed in you either. It's awesome you know what you want and need in a job and you did the right thing for your mental health.

Trs this green eyeshadow again ❤

first of all, love your channel - you are just super relatable to me and i truly look forward to your videos! 😬😬 second, don't feel bad for leaving that job - sometimes things aren't good fits and that includes working environments! i started a new job in march of last year and almost immediately something just felt "off" and i couldn't put my finger on it right away - but it got to the point where i was questioning if i was even in the right career (of 20 years mind you, lol) because i legit felt icky every workday and was having almost like imposter syndrome or something... eventually, i realized it just wasn't a good fit (which had never happened to me before - i've always loved and thrived in previous workplaces) and so i decided to leave for another opportunity 5 months in... not my MO - i like to plant roots! LOL, but i just could not stay there... i've been with the new company going on 9 months now and OMG = best decision ever! i love where i am, what i'm doing, the people i work with, the whole shebang! and i no longer question a new career! or question my abilities! i know for sure the same will happen for you!!! 🙂 we spend too much time at work to be miserable there - for whatever the reason! work sucks, who doesn't want to hit lotto to never have to work again, lol...but we can still find happiness and fulfillment if we are in the right place... sending lots of positive vibes your way as you navigate to the next (and fitting) path of your career journey! 💜

Your nephews are growing so fast 🤯 oh my goodness

We are close in age. I'm 49. Like you, I was raised with the attitude that if you have a job, you keep the job as long as you possibly can. No matter how miserable it is, you just suck it up and keep working there. I now work around/with many people from a much younger generation, ages 18-19. Their attitude is the complete opposite. They often believe that if something is the slightest bit unpleasant for you, then you should quit. I think the healthier approach...both personally and for our culture as a whole... is somewhere in the middle. No, you can't just stop going to work or quit your job because you don't like one detail, or it's a little boring, or you just don't feel like showing up this week. But keeping a job that literally makes you miserable doesn't serve anyone either. It impacts your mental health, your relationships, and in the end, it will impact the service you provide the people you're being paid to serve as well. I wouldn't advise anyone to stay in a situation like that unless the alternative were worse (like having no money saved or other money coming in, and no other options.)

I wish I had that kind of support! I think you did the right thing!

So proud of you Kandy. My husband is currently working a job that he absolutely hates and I can see the toll that it is taking on him. You absolutely did the right thing in moving on from the new job. It's nothing against you or them, it's exactly as you said just not a good fit. The right thing will come along!

Hi Kandy, do you mind me asking what anti depressants you are on? I just went through the same thing as you wanting to get off of mine and it went horribly. I was able to cry, and I did a lot, but the flip side of that was I also felt very agitated and irritable so easily. I got into major arguments with my hubby which was not normal, to the point where I wanted to leave and that's def not me. I figured out if I want to get off of them, I would have to do it very slowly and pay close attention to how it's affecting me. So I decided to one day, take half a dose and the next day, a whole dose, at least for a couple of weeks and if I'm doing ok with that, then I'll try 1/2 a dose every day for a few weeks and then maybe start doing that every other day and see what happens. If I see that I start feeling super irritable and agitated again, I'll go back to where I wasn't feeling that way. I realize it's a very slow process to wean off of anti depressants, and you need to give your brain time to adjust to the change. But I want to get off of them so badly. I hate having to be on them.

I’ve had to quit 2 jobs very quickly because they were not the right fit for me. One was very similar to your story and I am in the same field as you. First one I quit was after about 2.5 weeks, they severely underpaid me ($20,000 a year and I was training their main accounting person lol) the owner was a complete pig. The first day I met him he called everyone homophobic slurs. The nail in the coffin was them trying to make me work alone on Christmas Day as a new employee because I didn’t get PTO yet. Ok then don’t pay me for the day lol? Second job was so much like yours. It was for a private jet company, I was working accounts payable. The whole entire department quit except for one woman, she was supposed to train me. She took 5 minutes and said these are the systems we use, you’ll figure them out. They had me making extremely important decisions on mechanical parts for jets. Like I had to decide which was more important to buy (I knew nothing about jets). The person that was supposed to train me kept earbuds in all day and didn’t speak a single word to me other than to tell me she was also going to quit once I figured this out and to be prepared for mandatory unpaid overtime every weekend. Also be prepared for mandatory unpaid overtime after work at home each night. I quit after 2 days in an email to the controller telling her that it was not a good fit. Now I finally found a job I’m happy with and I make SO MUCH more money and get amazing benefits. The right job is out there!

Good for you Kandy👍🏻 you made the right choice